The Awkwardness Vortex with Melissa Dahl

Have you ever found yourself spiralling uncontrollably downwards in the "awkwardness vortex"? 🤔 Tune in to our latest podcast episode where we chat with celebrated science journalist Melissa Dahl about conquering those cringe-worthy moments and how awkwardness might just be a sign of empathy!

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Melissa is a science journalist, specialising in Psychology, Health and Lifestyle, and author of the very well received book Cringeworthy: A Theory of Awkwardness.

The conversation delves into retrospectively amusing personal experiences of social awkwardness, the psychological aspects behind it, and offers insights on how to manage and embrace these uncomfortable moments.  Key tactics include focusing outside oneself, reappraising anxiety as excitement, and appreciating awkwardness as a sign of empathy. Melissa reflects on how researching awkwardness has changed her perspective, highlighting the growth and connection that can come from embracing this very human emotion. Melissa also shares how awkwardness can have a positive side, signalling empathy and social awareness. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that will have you rethinking your relationship with awkwardness.

Here are links to a bunch of stuff we discuss in case you fancy reading a bit more about them:

• Barry Schwarz - Author of The Paradox of Choice : Why Less is More.
• Examples of the hugely effective End The Awkward campaign from Scope (a disability equality charity in England and Wales).
• Don’t Fill The Silence podcast episode
• Front Stage / Back Stage podcast episode

Episode Summary

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:51 Exploring the Awkwardness Vortex

02:51 Personal Experiences of Awkwardness

05:51 The Science Behind Awkwardness

08:49 Practical Tips to Overcome Awkwardness

22:23 Awkwardness in Media and Comedy

25:06 Exploring Empathy and Awkwardness

25:41 The Science Behind Secondhand Embarrassment

26:30 Empathy Spectrum and Social Interactions

29:25 Awkwardness in Media and Society

31:33 Cringe Mountain and Overcoming Embarrassment

34:37 The Irreconcilable Gap and Self-Perception

36:58 The Power of Awkward Silences

39:16 Growth Through Awkwardness

43:45 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Projects

All music on this podcast series is provided by the highly talented Franc Cinelli

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